Postpartum rage therapy in Los Angeles

Postpartum rage is rarely talked about, but it’s more common than most people realize. You might feel like you’re snapping at everyone, yelling over small things, or boiling with anger that doesn’t feel like you. This isn’t because you’re a “bad mom” or ungrateful—it’s because your nervous system is overwhelmed, your body is healing, and you’re carrying an impossible mental load.


At Alma de Madre’s postpartum rage therapy in Los Angeles , I help mothers understand where this anger comes from, release shame, and find practical tools to feel calm and grounded again. You deserve support that sees you as a whole person—not just a mom.

What is postpartum rage therapy?

Postpartum rage therapy is a safe, non-judgmental space to talk openly about anger, frustration, and irritability after birth—emotions that are often minimized or dismissed. Together, we’ll work on:

  • Understanding what’s underneath the anger—stress, exhaustion, or unmet needs
  • Regulating overwhelming emotions stored in the body
  • Processing feelings of guilt or shame about how you’ve reacted
  • Creating coping tools to pause before reacting and respond with more calm
  • Rebuilding a sense of trust in yourself and your relationships

This is not about being a “perfect mom.” It’s about helping you feel safer in your body, more in control of your reactions, and more connected to yourself and the people you love.

Most common symptoms of postpartum rage

  • Feeling like you’re constantly on edge or irritated
  • Snapping or yelling at loved ones over small things
  • Intrusive thoughts of wanting to throw or break something
  • Physical tension, clenched jaw, or racing heart during anger episodes
  • Guilt, shame, or regret after an outburst
  • Feeling disconnected from your baby or partner because of the anger
  • Trouble calming down even after the triggering moment has passed

If these feel familiar, you’re not alone—and therapy can help.

How do I know if I need postpartum rage therapy?

Ask yourself:

  • Do I feel out of control when I get angry?
  • Am I snapping at people I care about and then feeling guilty afterward?
  • Does my anger feel bigger than the situation?
  • Is it hard to calm down even after the trigger has passed?
  • Am I worried my anger might hurt my relationships or my bond with my baby?

If you answered yes to any of these, postpartum rage therapy can give you tools to regulate your emotions and feel more like yourself again.

How I treat postpartum rage in Los Angeles

My approach to postpartum rage therapy in Los Angeles is trauma-informed, compassionate, and practical. Together, we may focus on:

  • Identifying triggers and understanding what your anger is trying to tell you
  • Processing stress, resentment, or grief stored in the body
  • Using somatic and mindfulness tools to regulate your nervous system
  • Releasing perfectionism and the unrealistic expectations placed on mothers
  • Rebuilding connection and trust in your relationships after anger outbursts

I use a combination of:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to reframe negative thought patterns
  • Mindfulness and grounding techniques to regulate anger in the moment
  • Somatic tools to release physical tension and stored stress
  • Self-compassion practices to reduce guilt and shame

You are not broken for feeling anger—you’re overwhelmed. With the right support, you can find relief and feel safe in your body again.

What topics can we talk about in therapy for postpartum rage?

  • Managing anger, irritability, and emotional outbursts
  • Understanding what’s beneath the rage—stress, trauma, or exhaustion
  • Healing guilt and shame about how you’ve reacted
  • Navigating relationship challenges caused by anger
  • Creating supportive routines and boundaries to lower stress

 Ready to get started?

Book a consultation call

No pressure, no judgment—just a space to share what you’re going through and see if this support feels right for you.


Let’s meet where you are

Whether you’re running on no sleep, feeling stuck in survival mode, or just need someone to validate how hard this is, we’ll start from exactly where you are.


Start healing and thriving in your motherhood

With the right support, you can release the guilt, find balance, and reconnect with yourself—because you deserve to feel whole, not just needed.

Postpartum rage therapy specialists in Los Angeles

I specialize in postpartum rage therapy in Los Angeles, helping mothers navigate anger, resentment, and irritability after birth. You don’t have to keep feeling like you’re “losing it.” With the right tools and compassionate support, you can release the shame, understand your anger, and reconnect with yourself and the people you love.

Tips & resources for coping with postpartum rage

  • Practice deep breathing or grounding exercises when you feel anger rising
  • Identify your triggers and notice early signs of anger before it escalates
  • Take breaks when possible—stepping away can prevent outbursts
  • Focus on self-compassion, not self-criticism, after an outburst
  • Reach out for support—you don’t have to manage this alone

Hello! I'm Karla Hernández

LCSW perinatal and postpartum therapist serving women in Los Angeles and surrounding areas

I help new moms in Los Angeles navigate postpartum anxiety, depression, and the emotional shifts of motherhood. After experiencing my own struggles, I saw how much real support is missing for mothers. My practice is here to change that—offering trauma-informed, compassionate care that meets you exactly where you are. You don’t have to do this alone.

Book your Postpartum Rage therapy in Los Angeles, CA

  • Intake (50 to 60 minutes) $200
  • 50 minute individual therapy sessions are $200
  • I accept Aetna and Cigna insurance
  • Additionally I partner with Mentaya, who may help you get reimbursed for your therapy sessions through out of network benefits (I have a link to check benefits instantly to see if you qualify)


FAQ

How long does postpartum rage last?

It varies. For some mothers, postpartum rage lasts a few weeks, while for others it can persist for months or longer if untreated. Therapy can shorten recovery by helping you regulate emotions and address underlying stress.

When does postpartum rage start?

Postpartum rage can begin any time after birth—sometimes within days, other times months later, especially when exhaustion and stress build up.

What is a postpartum psychotic episode?

Postpartum psychosis is rare and very different from postpartum rage. It includes hallucinations, delusions, or extreme mood changes and requires immediate medical attention.

How do I know if I need help with my postpartum anger?

If your anger feels out of control, is harming relationships, or leaves you feeling guilty and ashamed, therapy can help you feel calmer and more in control.

Why does postpartum rage arise?

Hormonal shifts, sleep deprivation, stress, and feeling unsupported can all contribute to postpartum rage. Therapy helps you unpack these factors and find healthier ways to cope.